I am sorry if it seemed I took it personal... but please remember I, too, was an MPlayer.
Trying to alienate ourselves from the other players is not the way to go. I may suggest, however, to ask for games and once in the game room decide whether it will be for both ladders or just for Zone. i.e. Ask your opponent....Zone and Mplayer or just Zone? Please remember we ARE on the Zone and it would be unfair to other players there that a lobby full of players is not participating on that ladder